Welcome to the “Truth Zone.” To be entirely honest, I sincerely desire to help every man who really needs help. I constantly see the very real pain and anguish husbands, dads, and men in recovery go through due to regrets about life or shame about bad choices. But the challenge with helping everyone is that if I throw myself and my resources at the men who need help versus the men who really need help and “want” that help, then I’d basically be throwing valuable resources away. It is my belief that unless men acknowledge their struggles, their brokenness, and that they truly want to change, then the chances are close to nil they’ll make any genuine commitment to the recovery process. I’ve worked with too many men who say they want help and want to change, but over time bail on their commitment to the tough work required for authentic change.

I so wish that during my younger years, and adulthood that I had had someone to call me on my BS, or shoot straight with me when my words or professed values didn’t measure up to my actions. A true friend or partner like that would have been invaluable. So not having had that myself makes me want to sprinkle seeds of hope and healing across the globe in a millisecond, just like Santa Claus (and yes, I do believe in Santa!). But how can this be done and satisfy the needs of the masses? It cannot, at least not yet. So by default I must be selective in who I work with. If I take on men still content with dinking around in mediocrity and excuses, while they and their families suffer, how could I sleep with a clear conscience?

So…which are you? Are you of the variety who is sick and tired of being sick and tired of staying stuck in the past or your current reality, which threatens to drown out your hopes for an amazing future, and urgently wants to alter course? Or are you so down-trodden by all prior attempts to pull your own self out, and you’ve bought in to the lies you and others have told you about just accepting your fate? Wake up man! The truth is you know not if you’ll even live long enough to finish reading this sentence, let alone live to see the hoped for admiration and respect in the eyes of your spouse, children, family, friends, and co-workers. So let’s cut to the chase… my ideal client is: A hurting, frustrated, or concerned man, who passionately craves a change; who is genuinely willing to make an attempt at being authentic with self and others; and who is willing to do what ever it takes to see it through to fruition. Anything else, gentlemen, is just posing, and a wasted life under-lived. Your invested wife deserves it. Your innocent and needy children deserve it. Your long suffering family and friends deserve it. Your solution-focused career demands it. And you, of all people, owe it to yourself to acquire the necessary tools and support to take control of your life and to become an agent of change for a dream-worthy life.

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